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The Illusions of a Coincidence

by Dawn Ricci

Many of us have had one of these moments that made us stop and think of the odds of such occurrences as when we are thinking about a friend we haven’t spoken to in ages, and then they call out of the blue or when we are grappling with a tough decision, and suddenly, a random song lyrics or phrase in a book seems to spell out the answer we needed.

We wonder if these things just happen by chance or if it could it be something more

Many people call these moments coincidences, but what if they’re signs—gentle nudges from the universe guiding us toward something greater. It’s like the universe is saying, “Hey, pay attention. This is for you.”

Think about it. Many of us have probably brushed off a perfectly timed event as “random” without really considering what it might mean. Consider if those moments are little whispers meant to help us heal, grow or find clarity in our lives.

Psychologist Carl Jung called these experiences synchronicities—meaningful coincidences that feel almost magical because they connect to something happening in our lives. Examples can include finding exactly the right person or resource at just the right time or feeling like some unseen force was pointing us in a new direction.

The truth is these moments happen to all of us, but maybe we aren’t noticing them.

Start by staying open and curious. When we are not rushing through life, it’s easier to pick up on these little winks from the universe. Meditation, mindfulness or even just taking a few deep breaths during the day can help us tune in.

And when those “coincidences” happen, don’t just shrug them off. Ask yourself why it’s happening at that time, what it could mean for us or if there’s something you have been struggling with or searching for a connection.

These little signs often show up when we need them the most—like when we’re dealing with pain, uncertainty or a big decision. Sometimes, they’re meant to remind us of we’re not alone. Other times, they’re there to shine a light on something we need to face or heal.

Take a moment to think about our own lives. Consider if we have had any moments in which something happened that seemed too perfectly timed to be random. Maybe it gave the clarity we had been searching for or the courage to take the next step.

Even if the meaning isn’t immediately clear, don’t dismiss it. Sometimes, these signs take a little time to reveal their full message. And if we are ever feeling stuck or unsure, reach out to someone that can help us dig deeper into what these moments are trying to say.

At the end of the day, life isn’t just a series of random events. These little synchronicities are like breadcrumbs on our paths, leading us toward something more meaningful. They remind us we’re part of something bigger, something connected.

So, try to notice any coincidences of late that made pause and wonder. Maybe it’s time to start paying closer attention. The universe just might have something incredible to share.

Dawn Ricci is a Certified Spiritual Mentor, Healer, Psychic and Medium, who has worked with clients from all over the world. She opens the dialogue with Spirit to help client’s development their own Spiritual gifts, and offers her guidance in her private sessions, readings and healing modalities. For more information or to make an appointment, visit www.DawnRicci.com.